{"id":81976,"date":"2016-05-16T08:04:58","date_gmt":"2016-05-16T08:04:58","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/swn.af\/lib\/you-are-paid-the-salary-in-exchange-for-cohabiting-with-me\/"},"modified":"2016-05-16T08:04:58","modified_gmt":"2016-05-16T08:04:58","slug":"you-are-paid-the-salary-in-exchange-for-cohabiting-with-me","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/swn.af\/archive\/you-are-paid-the-salary-in-exchange-for-cohabiting-with-me\/","title":{"rendered":"You are paid the salary in exchange for cohabiting with me"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img fetchpriority=\"high\" decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" height=\"300\" src=\"\/Uploads\/2016\/2016 Online\/5 May\/16 May\/ThoughtNetwork_FeaturedImage_Harassment-848x300.jpg\" width=\"848\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Mahtab: I graduated from the journalism faculty. Few months after my graduation, I got a job but my salary was less than what I was imagining. A man who was my boss&rsquo;s bother recommended me to join his office. As I was running out of money, I approved his offer.<\/p>\n<p>At the very beginning, it seemed that he was very kind to me. He kept praising my attractiveness saying that my personality was impressive. One day he handed me a contract form which I had to fill. Reading the form, I realized that my proposed salary was surprisingly high and I could not believe to earn such high salary.<\/p>\n<p>Enthusiastic and surprised, I wanted to sign the contract from; my new boss excused me saying that &ldquo;you are paid this salary in exchange of cohabiting with me&rdquo;. &ldquo;You have to be with me&rdquo;, he said. Listening to him, I got shocked for few minutes and the world got completely dark for me. Immediately after that moment, I put the pen on table and left his office. After that, for a long time, I was completely depressed and then the very thinking about job was terribly shocking for me.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Nahid<\/strong>: Though, I was a newly graduated and ran out of work experience in journalism, I applied for a post in a broadcasting center. Yet, before I go through test and interview, the manager appointed me as a journalist. They allocated me a specific and large amount of salary.<\/p>\n<p>During the next days, my boss kept visiting my office increasingly and most often he bothered himself calling me to his office. After some time, at a night he called me. &ldquo;You have to come to my office as fast as possible&rdquo;, he told me on phone. &ldquo;We will talk about a significant job contract&rdquo;, he added. Attending his call, I directly headed to his office.<\/p>\n<p>The minute I reached to his office, he gently bothered himself sitting next to me. Immediately after that moment, I realized that I had committed a terrible mistake visiting him in his office at night. As my boss began talking to me, I excused him saying that my father was waiting outside the office for me. Having cut his words off, I immediately left his office and rushed to the door to escape. On the next day, I left my job for ever.<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" height=\"254\" src=\"\/Uploads\/2016\/2016 Online\/5 May\/16 May\/Dollarphotoclub_76837626_small-697x443.jpg\" width=\"400\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Safora<\/strong>: I was a graduated engineer. But due to dominancy of men in offices, I never dare to work in the atmosphere dominated by them. Not to be hurt, I decided to find job in an atmosphere where I could feel comfortable and easy. Thus, I applied for some vacant post in a number of ministries.<\/p>\n<p>Having applied for a post in a ministry, I waited to be called for interview. As days passed a man called me. He told me that I had been nominated for the post. &ldquo;You have to come to office for registering your name&rdquo;, he told me. Which office, I asked him in response. Not mentioning the title of ministry he asked me to visit him at an anonymous place. &ldquo;It is must for you&rdquo;, he stressed.<\/p>\n<p>Having heard his words, I realized that he wanted to trap me somewhere to apply his desirous will. Witnessing this, I turned my mobile off. By the next days, he called me to visit him in his office. This multiplied my fear of working in governmental offices. &ldquo;It is much nice to remain unemployed than being humiliated every day&rdquo;, Safora said s<a name=\"_GoBack\"><\/a>adly.<\/p>\n<p>ENDS&nbsp;&nbsp;&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mahtab: I graduated from the journalism faculty. Few months after my graduation, I got a job but my salary was less than what I was imagining. 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