{"id":81936,"date":"2016-05-11T09:38:01","date_gmt":"2016-05-11T09:38:01","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/swn.af\/lib\/the-interview-was-great-but-looks-are-more-important\/"},"modified":"2016-05-11T09:38:01","modified_gmt":"2016-05-11T09:38:01","slug":"the-interview-was-great-but-looks-are-more-important","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/swn.af\/archive\/the-interview-was-great-but-looks-are-more-important\/","title":{"rendered":"\u201cThe interview was great but looks are more important\u201d"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img decoding=\"async\" alt=\"\" src=\"\/Uploads\/2016\/2016 Online\/5 May\/11 May\/sexual  (2).jpg\" \/><\/p>\n<p><strong>Setara: <\/strong>I am a midwife. I was introduced to one of the state hospitals to receive further trainings. The hospital wasn&rsquo;t blessed with a good atmosphere. &nbsp;The doctor who was training us was so explicitly explaining to us sex organs. One day he told a student to stand up and explain how to use a condom. Witnessing this, I blushed and was embarrassed. He kept giving me suggestive looks.&nbsp; When we were alone, he gave me his phone number and emphasized that I should visit his office in Kot-e-Sangi. I learnt about what was going through his mind and never bother myself to visit his office.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Zahra:<\/strong> I was working in one of the private companies. One day my boss extended his hand to shake my hand which I refused to do so.<\/p>\n<p>Angry by my reaction, he told me that if I refused to shake hands, they would lose their clients.<\/p>\n<p>The next day all my colleagues did their best to convince me to shake hands but I continued to resist it. Though I was busy doing my job but handshaking turned into a big issue at my workplace.<\/p>\n<p>The pressure over such a small thing mounted which forced me to resign.<\/p>\n<p><strong>Shabnam:<\/strong> I was desperately looking for a job. For a short period of time, I worked for an NGO with a woman who was running it. It was not a thriving business as the woman didn&rsquo;t manage to channel any project. I asked her that if there was nothing to do then I would quit the NGO. She asked me to write a proposal for a new project so that she could introduce me to donor. A few days later, a man turned up and my boss said to me that this is the man who can help us with channeling projects to our NGO. As I started talking to him, I realized that I was sold to this man by my boss.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Fatima:<\/strong> I applied for a position. As soon as my application was submitted, I was called for an interview.<\/p>\n<p>I went for the interview. A man who was supposed to interview me was leering at me from head to toe. My education background was good enough. I looked around and I saw well-dressed and attractive girls. It didn&rsquo;t occur to me that I would land the job there. The man who interviewed me called me the next day and said that the interview was great but they value looks more than education. I was devastated. It damaged my confidence and self-esteem. I couldn&rsquo;t land the job. I was not attractive.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Salam Watandar is publishing a series of interviews with the victims of sexual harassment who have gone through the experience in government and non-government institutions. The names of the victims are fake but their stories are real.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":81937,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[80],"tags":[93],"class_list":["post-81936","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-society","tag-english"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/swn.af\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81936","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/swn.af\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/swn.af\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swn.af\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swn.af\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=81936"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/swn.af\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/81936\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swn.af\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/81937"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/swn.af\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=81936"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swn.af\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=81936"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/swn.af\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=81936"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}